http://epicchange.net/2009/07/22/attitude/ epic change. Tue, 19 Oct 2010 17:25:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ http://epicchange.net/2009/07/22/attitude/#comment-301 Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:43:42 +0000 http://epicchange.net/?p=296#comment-301 Good word P.J.
I’ve noticed the bad attitude that I’ve had recently and have been working on changing it…and i think that the 10/90 theory really is true. There will be times when everything is good…then something will happen and I can feel everything start to go down. Then I’ve stopped…breathed, and told myself-and who or whatever else is listening-that sorry, no deal, it’s not gonna get to me. Then I begin praying not only for the situation, but for my attitude in it.
And I end up having a very, very good day.
plus, something that came into my head that you used to say…”feelings don’t matter.” (well…not always) Just because I’m feeling like whatever is happening is not okay and I deserve better and blah blah blah doesn’t mean that I need to let everything around me take on that discontentment.
oh and last thought…sorry so long…but i like the thing you said about counting everything good in your life that you can’t lay claim to deserving. It’s a very, very good point.
~nicole

]]> http://epicchange.net/2009/07/22/attitude/#comment-271 Tue, 11 Aug 2009 00:05:43 +0000 http://epicchange.net/?p=296#comment-271 I think you’ve realized something very important. I have been through many trials and tribulations in my life. And it wasnt until I discovered that there was the “situation” and there was “THE PROBLEM”. “THE PROBLEM” being me, the attitudes, beliefs and distortions I brought to the reality of the situation.
The “I dont deserve this” to “Why me?”
So I’ve learned to pray ” God, if you wont change the situation…then please change me… This allows me to let go and let God and takes my Ego out of the equation. I ask god to remove the obstacle thats preventing me to surrender and then I am free to trust…it will be done. Wil

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